To access love is a spiritual practice, it isn't something that you fall into. Sam Keen, a teacher, sums up this wisdom: "When we focus obsessively on romance, the single most irrational, volatile, and often illusory form of love, we fail to consider that love may be an art involving skills that need to be developed and practiced throughout a lifetime." Recognize that you can't love others until you truly love all of yourself.
"When you understand how to love one thing, then you also understand how to love everything."
Novalis
ACCESS LOVE WITHIN
When we feel love, we are conditioned to think that it is because of the object of our attraction we feel that. But if you diligently examine where the feelings take place and who is the first to benefit from the feelings, you will come to realize that it takes place not outside of you. There is no one can feel loving in your stead. Even though others may serve as catalysts for feeling of love, the source of it is within. To love is to wish somebody happiness.
Believing otherwise we might be afraid to love and worry that nobody will love us back. Inadvertently closing our ability to access love within and let our love to atrophy.
Our subconscious mind is not able to distinguish between the imaginary and real. Using this application is very therapeutic for transforming feelings of hurt, anger and withdrawal. To use this technique is to elicit feelings of loving for yourself and others. Longing for love is an innate desire for completion. When you feel hurt and in need of loving, you can open this channel within to begin healing with love.
HOW TO ACCESS LOVE
You may also find a loving-kindness meditation to be very effective to access love in your consciousness.
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